Tips for Making a Kid’s Bento Box Lunch

Ham spread, crackers, carrot and cucumber salad, and cherry tomatoes are dressed up for this young child's bento.
Bright colors and shapes, and cute food picks make an appealing bento box lunch for a young child.

Miss T wasn’t eating her brown bag lunch at preschool. So, every Friday for the past three years, I volunteered to make a kid’s bento box lunch to whet her appetite.

My strategy: make the food look appealing, pack small portions, and keep it cute! Then, cross your fingers….

Consumption results were mixed. Sometimes Miss T cleaned out her bento box and at other times, she left behind a discouraging amount of food.

Taking it to Instagram

To document the lunches, I began photographing the bentos and posting the photos on Instagram. (Miss T’s preschool teacher was posting them on Facebook.)

Cookbook author friends, on seeing the posts, encouraged me to write a bento book. Although flattered, I always demurred because my lunches were simply variations on a few themes, tailored to Miss T’s narrow tastes as a picky eater.

While not sufficiently cookbook material, it occurred to me that busy parents might use these simple techniques for making a kid’s bento box lunch. So, here are some tips:

My Go-to Bento Box Lunch Choices

Mostly, I rotate just three different menu options: grilled cheese, lightning-fast Japanese noodles with a dipping sauce, and omusubi or onigiri (rice balls) with side dishes.

Grilled cheese sandwiches cut in leaf shapes, apple wedges, artichoke half and chocolate-dipped strawberries fill this bento box.
Cut grilled cheese sandwiches in leaf shapes to add appetite appeal. I made a handful of Chocolate-dipped strawberries as a special treat.
  • Grilled Cheese Sandwiches: I use my panini press but you could also make them in a skillet. Grill the bread until nice and crunchy, cool, and cut into shapes. Sourdough is a good choice.
  • Cold Somen Noodles: Boil these almost-instant Japanese noodles about 3 1/2 minutes. Then rinse in cold water, drain, and accompany with readymade Tsuyu dipping sauce (there are several brands), available at Asian markets or online.
  • Omusubi or onigiri (rice balls): First, start cooking the Japanese short grain rice on the fast cycle of a rice cooker (about 30 minutes). Meanwhile, get the side dishes ready. When cooked, shape the rice using one of the many adorable molds for rice available.
Cold somen noodles with dipping sauce, tomato wedges, strawberries and little sausages turned into octopuses make up this bento box.
Cold somen noodles with dipping sauce is Miss T’s favorite. Make the”octopuses” by quartering little sausages halfway to form tentacles, and pan fry
Steak slices, carrot sticks, rice balls shaped like pandas and a mini chocolate cupcake make a birthday bento lunch.
Repurpose leftover steak slices from dinner for lunch the next day. Serve with carrots and panda-shaped onigiri for a hearty bento. The monkey cupcake was a birthday treat.

Cheater’s Tips

Here’s how I create the bento box variations:

  • Instead of slices or sticks, use vegetable cutters to cut carrots and cheese slices into flowers, leaves, or other shapes. Use different shapes each time.
  • You can turn any food into a personality by sticking on some plastic eye picks.
  • Cut grilled cheese sandwiches into interesting pieces, for example, soldiers (strips), or triangles, or use a cookie cutter for hearts, leaves, and other shapes.
  • Thread bites of food on skewers—cherry tomatoes, cheese cubes, and ham strips are more inviting when presented as kabobs.
  • Use garnishes for appetite appeal, such as a sprig of parsley, an arugula leaf or a flowering herb. Or decorate your bento box with inexpensive Japanese sushi grass.
  • Add food picks to dress up the bento box. Animals, flowers, dinosaurs, trains–choose the images that appeal to your child.
  • For more kid’s bento box lunch ideas, check out some of my past lunches.
A sandwich cutter is used for a ham and cheese bear sandwich. Cheese hearts , strawberries, apples, broccoli and raisins complete the bento box.
You can transform a basic ham and cheese sandwich into a bear by using a sandwich cutter. The yellow hearts are cheese slices

Search for cute kids bento box accessories online or at Japanese import stores. I also check out novelty and gift shops and cookware stores as I travel.

The Bento Lunch Lady is now Retired

This year, Miss T has moved on to another school, where it’s not convenient to stop by at grandma’s to pick up a bento lunch. So, this lunch lady is retired until Master N starts the same preschool next year.

However, for the first day of school, first-grader Miss T, with help from her dad and the book, Cooking Class, made her own bento lunch, so the tradition continues.

Miss T skewers cold meat slices, cheese and vegetables to make her own back-to-school bento lunch.
Six-year-old Miss T, in her jammies, prepares her bento for school the next day.
At six years old, Miss T is able to put together a lunch-on-a-stick bento.
Miss T, made her first bento lunch.

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